• The entire plot of Lord of the Rings: "Put that thing back where it came from or so help me."

Anonymous asked:

So I don't mean to pry or be rude but do agender people and gender fluid people prefer the they/them pronouns, should you ask or would you refer to them as they?

its best to ask! if you arent sure and haven’t asked yet, it’s polite to use neutral pronouns (they/them) until someone tells you what they prefer (imo)


milky-gay:

oh im sorry i didnt see you there, i was too busy mmmblockin out the taters

milky-gay:

hey if u ever feel bad about ur looks you should just know that i went from this 13 year old thing:

to this 15 year old girl

to this 16 year old boy

there’s hope for us all 


Anonymous asked:

I tried google but I didn't find exactly what I was looking for, that's why I'm asking here. I'm looking for a short guide about words like cisgender, transgender, gender-fluid, etc etc making very clear the differences between them and what they mean Thx

milky-gay:

OHHH ok sure!

Cisgender: Someone who identifies with the gender they were assigned at birth (ie cis women have vaginas)

Transgender or Nonbinary: Someone who identifies with a gender other than what they were assigned at birth

TranssexualSomeone who changes their sex

Genderfluid: Someone who’s gender is fluid and changing. Sometimes they might feel female, sometimes they might feel agender, sometimes they might feel male. The number of genders they switch between varies from person to person and they do not randomly choose their gender, it just changes for different reasons.

Agender: someone who identifies as having no gender (agender folk often use pronouns such as they/them, ze/zir, or ae/aer but those are just a few examples. its polite to ask their pronouns if you are not sure.)

Pangender (me): someone who identifies as having characteristic or traits of all genders. i use they/them but again pronouns vary from person to person.

AFAB/DFAB: Assigned/designated female at birth

AMAB/DMAB Assigned/designated male at birth

FTM/MTF: Used to describe someone’s transition, FTM=Female to male MTF=Male to female

Cissexism: Discrimination towards transgender people. Also referred to as transphobia, but I prefer the term cissexism because you aren’t afraid of trans folk you’re just an asshole.

THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND

  • Do not ask trans people what gender they were assigned at birth
  • Do not tell trans people they “look hot as a guy and as a girl” it’s really rude and ignorant
  • Do not put an asterisk after the word trans. There is a misconception that this is the right thing to ddo but the asterisk was actually put there to inclue people who are “not trans enough.” Trans is an umbrella term and there is no such thing as not being trans enough so do not use the term trans*.
  • It is polite to ask someone their gender pronouns if you do not already know them because it shows that you are not being cisnormative and do not assume pronouns based on gender stereotypes.

Okay that’s all I can think of at the moment. If you have anything else to add go ahead!

THIS POST COVERS GENERAL DEFINITIONS WHICH DO NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE. EACH PERSON HAS A GENDER IDENTITY THAT IS UNIQUE TO THEM AND DOES NOT NECESSARILY FIT INTO THE DEFINITIONS I HAVE PROVIDED. THIS IS JUST A GUIDELINE.




apersnicketylemon:

revolutioninabox:

A pro-life group in Lansing, Michigan says fetal models have helped save a baby from a late-term abortion. Officials with 40 Days for Life in Lansing posted a picture of a set of fetal models that it says helped changed a woman’s mind about having an abortion.“ I showed the 30-week model to a late-term mom who left the clinic and DID NOT have an abortion. Praise God!” the group wrote.

Literally none of these except the final one is anatomically correct. You literally have a minuturized born infant model as your 12 weeks ant 8 weeks fetus, this is BLATANT misinformation and lies.
Additionally abortions at 30 weeks? Aren’t legal ANYWHERE in the world unless the fetus is already fucking dead or cannot survive outside the uterus on it’s own. You didn’t save ANYTHING, or else you are lying about gestational age OR they weren’t actually going for an abortion or you made the whole story up.
This is propaganda, misinformation and lies, it’s disgusting and it doesn’t actually help your movement. This is (among the reasons) why pro choicers think pro liars are full of shit, and refuse to respect you or your movement.